Is it necessary to know everything about your partner’s previous relationships?
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Is it really necessary to know everything from your partner’s previous relationships?
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2022-10-26T14:20:36+00:00
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Some questions are on a “need to know” basis. But most of the time it’s best to let the past stay in the past. Unless you’re dating a really inquisitive person.
Most definitely not, unless it’s important if not, some past are best forgotten.
Knowledge is relative, you can choose to disclose as long as your Partner demands but some things are better not known if possible. However, for the sake of transparency, it is okay to speak out and disclose every thing.
It better to open up to each other in order to know each other weaknesses. Transparency is key in marriage.
Its not necessary to disclose details of past relationships except very important ones that could jeopardize the relationship
There are two School of thoughts. One in support and the other believing in “let the past remain in the past”
If your partner asks about your past relationships, I think one should open up and talk about it. But for equity, your partner too should reciprocate and talk about his/her past. It’s all about transparency which I believe will help the relationship.
And I think this will also mitigate any possible bad feelings if your spouse par adventure should hear about your past outside.
Knowing too much atimes might be harmful… But atimes useful… Just be careful